Written by Paula Mee, BSc, Dip Dietetics, MSc in Health Sciences, MINDI, Food and Nutrition Consultant
Tips for making the most of mealtimes
- Children need to be fed dinner early in the evening - tired children are always a recipe for disaster.
- Have a regular place to eat for young children, they like routine.
- Never bribe or force a child to continue eating after they say they are full. Just encourage them. Of course, children will make mistakes and eat too much or too little - that is all part of learning.
- Don't fuss over table manners. Squishing bananas or spitting out food are normal behaviors which will disappear in time. Toddlers throw food as part of experimenting. A firm 'no' and avoiding picking it up while they are watching will be enough. For an older child, a warning followed by a calm consequence such as removing the food is the most appropriate response - no child has ever starved from missing a meal.
- Older children like variety - family picnics make a special treat.
- Allow older children to serve themselves.
- Consult your GP or practice nurse if your are constantly battling with your child or concerned about your child's food intake or if your child seems lacking in energy.
- Model good behaviour yourself; show them you enjoy good food.
- Praise behaviours you want. For example, "thank you for passing the bread".
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